Monday, June 11, 2012

Good Friends vs Best Friends


One that comes up often in the world of friendship is when a person becomes your “best friend”. This is looked at by some as equal to a new romantic relationship and saying “i love you” for the first time. Ie.. A huge ball of stress.
If you have been hanging out with a new gal pal for awhile and feel perhaps she might be falling into the BFF category.. You might want to consider a few points first…

1) Some people throw BFF around and some people take it very seriously. Approach with caution.
2) Most people agree you can have way more than 1 Best Friend. “Best” doesn’t really seem to imply what it once did in the age of moving across the country, twitter and instant text messaging.


A good friend will tell you what you want to hear.
A best friend will always tell the truth.
        A good friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
        A best friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A good friend will be there for you all through school.
A best friend will be there till the day you die.
       A good friend will bail you out of prison.
       A best friend will be sitting next to you saying
       “damn that was fun!”.
A good friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A best friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
       A good friend hates it when you call after they’ve gone to bed.
       A best friend asks you why you took so long to call.
A good friend wonders about your romantic history.
A best friend could blackmail you with it.
       A good friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
       A best friend calls you after you had a fight.
A good friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A best friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.
       A good friend has never seen you cry.
       A best friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.
A good friend doesn’t know your parents’ first names.
A best friend has their phone numbers in his address book.
       A good friend expects you to always be there for them.
       A best friend expects to always be there for you.
A good friend is someone you enjoy hanging out with.
A best friend is someone you need.


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